infatuation
Sean Mitchell Bible 4 4-11-03 Composition essay The Webster’s New World Dictionary defines infatuation as: To make fall in love in a foolish or shallow way Sr. ... White calls infatuation a Poor Ground for Marriage. ... The good name of honor is sacrificed under the spell of this infatuation, and the marriage of such persons cannot be solemnized under the approval of God. They are married because passion moved them, and when the novelty of the affair is over, they will begin to realize what they have done” I see infatuation as being enchanted by someone or something, not because of love but because of physical, sexual reasons or covetous reasons. ... Most people when they hear the word love or infatuation, they think about sex physical attraction and lust. ... Sean: How do you differentiate between infatuation and genuine love? Sebastian: “When I’m asked how to differentiate between infatuation and genuine love I answer that one has to care about the other as much as for oneself, and to relate to the entire person (including needs, problems and shortcomings - if the person has a problem, you are Supportive, “there” for the person, concerned, connected and Accepting, you look to justify and understand and exonerate and help and explain the negatives, and still accept the person and appreciate and enjoy the positives), and you want to give to the person of your own volition as would please the other without needing remuneration to motivate you. ... ” You can identify infatuation as being "turned on, physically and emotionally,” at the point when someone or something happens to be around you or even just the thought of them. ... When people start having this total surrender through infatuation, they start to forget who they are because they are so obsessed with the other person; this kind of thing only occurs during extreme situations. Infatuation tends to be chiefly unhealthy when the other being is turned into such a great part of your life that you become unable to execute your everyday tasks. ... ” Infatuation is usually a negative attribute to love that can take a person’s mind over. ... BY saying that we truly love someone when it is just infatuation, then that can called a form of taking the name of god in vain In an article called “Finding Your Zivug” which means finding your true love, by Rabbi Forsytheit says “When couples come to me for marriage counseling, they often tell me that they fear having differences tell them they should fear having fights but NOT to fear having differences.