Reciprocity In Married Couples
Submitted by nikos5 on 06/30/2008 05:21 PM
Reciprocity In Married Couples
"In real life, marriage is about reciprocity and power." What can be a real marriage in itself; a true romantic love or a simple assigned contract between tow partners? Many people around the world form different love affairs between one and other. Time passes and all at a sudden they decide to be closer. Here comes marriage as well! In most of the time, people live love stories not necessary being married. They are very happy with their partners and enjoy their life on the best. Nothing in the world can replace the love they are living in. However, it is still asked for the marriage. It shows that marriage stays beyond the true-love. It might happen for the marriage to be more or less than true-love but obviously soon or late partners ask for it. It shows that marriage works to fulfill partners' necessities rather than making their love closer. Therefore, I will explain through my paper why does marriage stay as a necessity to married couples and how reciprocal should it be to last forever. Surprisingly it is believed that when people get married they move from a true-love to a conditions filled life.
Reciprocity is present in absolute to married couples as they exchange similar behaviors. It is not meant for reciprocity to be always good. It can be bad too but what works for sure is that couple's reciprocity to one and other have to be both same; either good or bad. If one partner wants to argue, the other one must do as well. If one partner shows anger, the other one must do as well. If one partner eye-gaze to his/her partner the other one must do as well. If one partner gives kisses, the other must do as well. If one partner makes steps in a dance, the other must follow him/her too. It is impossible to dance if you do not attach your hands to one and other; as it is impossible for two partners to be married and live together if they do not serve to each others' needs. Relationship between partners must rely on strong reciprocity so that their...
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